Don’t Be Fooled: How We Got Married Over Drinks, Drums, and Foo Fighters

Some weddings take months—years even—to plan. The perfect dress, the right venue, a guest list whittled down from 300 to a “manageable” 150, overpriced catering, and an anxiety-inducing playlist debate. And then there’s what really happened when Wesley and Victoria tied the knot: a night of drinking, two best friends, a last-minute “Hey, let’s just do it,” and a legally binding document signed in a haze of whiskey and laughter.

This wasn’t just a few celebratory drinks. This was a full-blown, deep-into-the-bottle, music-blaring, no-turning-back kind of night. It started with good intentions—just another raucous evening with Nikkali Heeter and Patricia White, two of their closest friends. But somewhere between shots, Foo Fighters deep cuts, and reminiscing about late, great drummers, the couple remembered something important: they had a marriage certificate sitting on the counter.

And just like that, the stars (and the liquor) aligned. Nikkali—an ordained officiant by some miraculous twist of fate—was there. The paper was signed.
 

00:00 – Opening Chaos
Booze, drums, and a whole lot of background noise—welcome to the show.

05:30 – The Drinking Escalates
What started as a casual night in with friends turned into something much bigger.

12:45 – The Big Realization
“Wait… we have a marriage license, right?”

18:30 – Spontaneity at Its Finest
How a night out with friends became a full-on wedding.

25:15 – The $100 Wedding Plan
No guest list. No stress. Just good music and even better drinks.

32:40 – Taylor Hawkins Tribute
A nod to the drummers who shaped our love of music.

40:00 – The Moment of Truth
Signing the papers while laughing (and possibly spilling drinks).

50:20 – Post-Wedding Reflections
What happens when you wake up married?

1:05:10 – Final Toasts & The Aftermath
No regrets. Just a lot of love, music, and an unforgettable night.'

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